Saturday, September 14, 2013
" I was THAT kid"
Everyone is different and unique in their own way. Although, in school there is usually something that I think every class has.There are a few of those who make straight "A's" and in early grade levels considered, "the nerds". I was that kid. I loved to have fun with my friends, but when it came to class work, the "A" at the top of my paper was all I wanted to see. When I look back on it now, I still don't understand why I pushed myself so hard. I don't know why I really cared. I am one of 14 kids in my family. My parents never checked my homework, school work, or report card. I can't blame them, they did not really understand any of it. I just kept pushing myself to make good grades because I wanted to. I guess I set that goal for myself because I wanted to achieve something. In class, I was the one kids wanted to sit down next to during a test. I got cheated off of a lot during school.
A part of me kept allowing it because I really cared about my friends. I wanted to help them out if they didn't understand something. After awhile, the teachers talked more about cheating. They let us know that it was wrong for someone to do all the work and have someone else take credit for it. I stopped allowing people to cheat off me in class.
Although, I fell back into that scenario last semester in college. A classmate asked me for help in math and I agreed to help. When she came over and just copied everything exactly I knew what was happening. I wasn't going to allow myself to fall back into that situation again.
I think cheating is so wrong. There are consequences that follow. There is not always going to be someone there to cheat off of. Sooner or later that person is going to have to do the work themselves. It will make it so much harder when the situation arises.
It really isn't worth all the stress that will come after.
I'm not saying that I don't make mistakes. I have made many mistakes in my life that I am not too happy about. When it comes to plagiarism, I would never intentionally do it. If I have ever done it in the past, I am unaware of it.
Just like cheating, I don't think its fair at all to take credit for someones work. I do admit that I am not the greatest with citing. I try very hard to cite quotes or any other work that I may use in my paper. It may not be the correct way to cite something, but I really try. I will at least put the page number and authors name in quotations at the end of the sentence. I understand how hard people work to write papers, books, articles, etc. I would never try to take the credit they deserve for their hard work. I think a huge consequence to plagiarizing is if your told to retell something from what you stole, without looking, you are in deep trouble. I would be so embarrassed if that ever happened to me. Not to mention being kicked out of school for it would be absolutely heart-breaking.
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I love all the pictures! Calvin and Hobbes is my favorite cartoon. I was that kids too, tho my family is not that large. Wow! One of 14! I really enjoyed reading your blog.
ReplyDeleteYour blog is amazing this week, Zo! I agree with both things Kaloni said above...1/14 children! And the images do go great with your topic. I had the same issue. I remember a guy that was really smart (just not applying himself) asked to cheat off of me in my Senior year in hs. We were good friends so I let him. I felt so guilty. Then my AP teacher asked if I had and I was honest. I NEVER did it again. Of course he failed that assignment. I really should have as well (I feel) for aiding in cheating.
ReplyDeleteDishonesty is so wrong to me. No one ever legitimately gets ahead by cheating. They may earn tons of money, be "successful," and everyone loves them...however, inside they should feel miserable and like they cheated themselves if nothing else.
We are very alike aren't we. :) I didn't post it in my blog and didn't really remember it until you said it, but I was also "That Kid" (Kaloni {ha ha}) in class. When I was a junior in high school, the guy that sat right behind me didn't understand algebra, so i would always put my paper at the edge of my desk so he could copy the answers. Although i didn't get my answers from someone else, your absolutely right that i wasn't helping him either the way i thought i was. Great blog this week. :) The picture with the kids and the paper on their heads is funny.
ReplyDeleteI too come from a large family. I am the youngest of 8 children! I completely get it when you say " your parents never check your homework", neither did mine. There was almost this understanding that you do what you are suppose to do, nuff said. My parents were great but after 8 kids they were tired. I have four of my own but am determined to be there for each one of them in every way I can.Finally, i would just like to say how much I admire you putting your education first. Keep up the good work!
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